Condolence: Dear Mrs Arlotta, Gloria, Marie & Camille, I am so very sad to hear about Joey's passing. I remember us all as kids playing at Elizabeth Place Park in South Nyack. Such carefree times. He was always so funny. May his laughter and kindness continue to give you comfort and fill your hearts. My prayers and thoughts are with you all. ~Annie

Condolence: Good guy here. Always redirecting the topic, when I asked him how his treatments were progressing, to my mother's hospital status. Walking up to me before mass asking me my mother's name - so he could say a prayer for her. I moved to Nyack 10 years ago - he was the most decent man I've come to know around here. Sorry for everyone's loss

Condolence: My deepest condolences to the arlotta family. Joe was a fighter and I know he is now your angel from above..I was part of the Tanglewood family and I know how missed he will be...love always jeanette🙏🙏

Condolence: Joe I had no idea your cancer came back. You were a dear friend a wonderful man and I am sorry I didn’t get to say goodbye 💔 I no the angels are happy to have you on there team. If you see my mom or Philomena or my dad give them a big kiss from me. YOU WILL BE MISSED AND THOUGHT OF EVERYDAY FROM THIS DAY FORWARD. All my prayers and LOVE TO YOU💔💔💔💔

Condolence: Joe and the entire Arlotta Family (my second Family) thank you for the find memories that go back before I can remember. Joe you are my older Brother I can’t tell you what you mean to me and the honor to be at your wedding. I love you and I will miss you every day. I’m glad the pain is over and you are home. We will keep an eye on your Mother and Lydia. I love you Bro -Chris

Condolence: From the stories, condolences and pictures posted, anyone who did not even know Joe would get a true sense of his qualities. He was funny, thoughtful, smart, caring and loving. We have truly lost a special person. To Aunt Gloria and the entire family, we grieve with you and express our sympathies. Love Joe and Barbara

Condolence: We will miss you uncle Joe.Thank you for the help and support you give.I will miss your smile,Thank you for being helpful and kind.We love you and we miss you.

Condolence: Lydia, Mrs Arlotta, Gloria, Camille and Marie: Joe came into our families lives as an angel sent from above, to keep an eye on our brother. The relationship went from caretaker, to friend to Joe being "our brother from a different mother" - he became part of our family. I am heartbroken for you his immediate family but please know that there is another group of heartbroken families that loved Joe dearly and a day will not pass that we will not think of him, talk to him and pray to him & for him. Lydia - how can we ever thank you for being so gracious about sharing Joe will all of us. Joe - now you are truly an angel but your job is not done. We're counting on you to keep a watchful eye on all of our "special family members". Rest in Peace and I hope You Laughing with The Angels. I will miss you always.

Condolence: I have no words that can express fully the sadness I feel for all of our Arlotta family at Joseph's passing - in a special way my heart breaks for Aunt Gloria who has experienced horrible tragedies in her life. I will always treasure the texts I exchanged with Joseph over the past 2 years - I hope in some way the love and prayers I sent him brought him some comfort. This is a terrible loss and the pain and grief will take a long time to heal. I love you all and send hugs, kisses, as I pray for your strength.

Condolence: Dear Camille and Arlotta family, I'm sorry to hear about the loss of Joey. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this sad time. Joey is now another angel looking down on all of his family and friends and will forever be missed ❤

Condolence: My heart is broken that you’ve left us. I will miss you terribly my sweet cuz! Give us strength to move forward without your beautiful smile and sense of humor. You’re forever in my heart.

Condolence: Dear Mrs Arlotta, Gloria, Marie & Camille, I’m so very sorry to hear of Joe’s passing. So glad I got to see him the last time I was in Nyack. You all are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Praying that God gives you strength. Rest in Paradise Joe....❤️

Condolence: my deepest condolence to the family and to my mom, l will surely miss your smile jhoe, your such a great guy, you will be surely missed by everyone

Condolence: My deepest condolences to the Arlotta family. May Joe's memory be for a blessing.

Condolence: Dear Arlotta family, I’m so sorry to hear about Joey. He was such a pleasure to be around. Always smiling with a kind word for everyone. He will be sorely missed by anyone who ever met him. May he Rest In Peace. Carolyn

Condolence: We are so sorry to hear of Joe's passing. He was such friendly guy and will be missed so much as we enter our 5:30 mass. We will keep your family in our prayers and may God watch over all of you. Love Chuck and Mary Ann Scarpulla

Condolence: gloria, what a beautiful tribute to your brother! sending you and your entire family love and prayers for peace in your hearts. love you, Lynn

Condolence: My deepest sympathy to Joe's family. He will surely be missed by his 10 pins family. His kindness and humanity will be part of his legacy. May he rest in peace.

Condolence: I know Joe is in a better place. I pray for his Family here on earth that they have peace knowing Joey is with his Dad and Brothers. I watched you grow up Joey and now that your an Angel I hope you watch over us. 💔

Condolence: Joe... I remember the first day I met you. I was being dragged to Tanglewood because I was not trusted to be home alone and I was sitting in the living room moping when you walked in. You didn’t just walk past me like everyone else did or suggest that I sit somewhere else because I was being annoying you just said “You want some ice cream?” those 5 words could bring up any 9 year olds day in a split second. After that followed the dozens of pranks we would do to my grandma who I call Baba then by you hearing that you called Baba. I’m sure that being called Grandma by her coworker wasn’t her intention but I found it hilarious. One time we covered her whole computer in sticky notes. And we gave her a new tissue box with only 1 tissue in it. My favorite is when you gave her an employee of the month plaque every month and she was so confused because nobody else had ever won. I could name other funny story’s but you’d spend the next 30 years reading them. Joe was a great man. He cared for everybody he met and always knew how to brighten a day. He asked me to sing at his wedding. He could have asked anybody in the world. People who base there whole profession on it and who are 100x better then me but he didn’t ask them. He asked me. He always came to my shows. Even if they were a major inconvenience to him. He was an amazing man and he was taken to soon.

Condolence: My dear friend Joe You will be greatly missed and always loved. You have touched so many lives and with that you will live on in their memories and hearts forever, just like ours. We will miss your practical jokes and most of all your laugh when you succeed with your pranks. If we could talk again, we would tell you that we love you and we thank you for all that you brought to our lives. Our deepest condolences to your family.

Condolence: "He who lives in the hearts of others will never truly be gone." You welcomed us into your life and provided us with good memories we will carry with us for the remainder of our lives. You had a big heart and a giving spirit which exemplified strength and courage during difficult times. We will miss you. Our hearts and prayers are with your loving family. Rest In Peace dear friend.

Condolence: On behalf of myself, my family, and the other members of the 10 pins bowling league, God took a good one way too soon. I am so sorry for your loss. A truly great guy who never tired of yanking my chain and I loved chatting with him before it was time to bowl.

Condolence: Lydia my angel,Momma Arlotta, Beautiful Arlotta family. My heart is broken. With you, for you. Joe meant the world to me. He meant the world to 14 of my favorite people. He gave me so many memories his 60th birthday, Lydia's birthday, his wedding, Tanglewood Christmas Parties, letting the folks draw on his head on Valentines day. He blessed our lives daily. He was an inspiration. He barely missed a day of work during chemo. He kept us laughing even when I knew he was hurting. I miss him so. My prayers are with you. I love you.

Condolence: Tanglewood was blessed the day Joe came walking in the door. Joe truly found his calling. Joe gave his heart and soul and time (Sorry Lydia) to the folks at Tanglewood. He went to weddings, funerals, baptisms, vacations. He always went above and beyond. He loved. He was loved. He made us laugh. He kept us on our toes. He made our lives better. He made us better. He is irreplaceable and he will be missed. Thank you Lydia,Momma Arlotta and Arlotta family for sharing him. We were blessed.

Condolence: So sorry to hear of Joey passing. I have so many wonderful memories of high school with Joey and all the great times had at his house. His smile and sense of humor were the best. I’m keeping the family in my thoughts and prayers

Condolence: My Man Joe. Always a great great day when we would hook up and laugh about old times and talk about important current things going on with us. From brunches at OD’s in Nyack to rockin’ out at BB Kings in NYC it was always the best. I will miss you dearly my brother. Rest In Peace

Condolence: Teri and I send our love to all the family, we are thinking of you

Condolence: Goodness, a truly gentle soul to walk with. A huge part of my entire life and I think of him often. Wonderful times in South Nyack, Weehawken and West New York. I certainly wouldn’t be the person I am today without Joe in my life. Blessed indeed. I look forward to being with him and the rest of those Arlotta Boys soon. Always, my peace, love, and prayers! - Kenneth

Condolence: At this sorrowful period in your life, please accept my sincerest condolences for the death of your loved one.  Reflecting on the divine promises found in the Bible will give you hope and strength to keep going until all of God's promises are fulfilled. (Romans 15:13; John 5:28, 29).